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People come and People Go !

Heyy people what’s up. Hope you all are doing well. So here I am with another post. Not consistent but you all can understand that my schedule doesn’t allow. I will but after sometime.

As we are social beings so we interact with so many people in our day to day lives. Some are casual ones and some are special ones.

Special ones include your best friend, your partner, your family and maybe someone who shares a unique bond with you.

Now, we get attached to people. But once they leave, the major effect is on us. We get hurt. We keep hoping for that day when they will be back. But this happens in rare cases. Once people are gone they are gone. Only some will be back.

We are used to of their presence. One major thing that you should keep in mind is “People come and people go”

See there are so many beautiful souls around the world. You will meet endless of people in your life. Why to stick and regret on one. Just move on from them.

I know moving on is very difficult but not impossible. You can move on from someone. May it be anyone.

Now the question how we will. So there are different ways for everyone. Some people like me can move on by themselves without uttering a word to someone.

Some people need a help for moving on. But the process starts from spending time with yourself. Where you discover yourself, where you love yourself.

Start it now don’t stop your beautiful life because of someone. You deserve more better and more beautiful souls in your life. And they will come to you by themselves. But for that you have to move on from old ones and you have to write another beginning.

“People come and people go but you should always go with the flow.”


Haha ! Have you noticed I have made a rhyme here. I’m glad 😭

Jokes apart !!

Well, I just tried to inspire you to move on from different people. Hope you will understand.

You are free to share your views and opinions.


That’s all thank you for reading my article !

Love you all ❤️

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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Sadness Sadness Everywhere !!!

Heyy people what’s up hope you all are doing well. What do you think about today’s topic, will it be full of depressing content ? Answer is “NO”.

So why I’ve written a title like this, because this is the today’s bitter truth. Sadness is occupying happiness like, “mass and volume occupies space”. Ok ok no science here !! But this can be an ideal example.

Guys people are loosing their happiness day by day because of so many things. Reasons for becoming sad are endless. Deep down we all are sad because of so many reasons.

You know why we are sad and depressed nowadays because we aren’t finding happiness in small small things. Now some people will come in the comment section and say “Easier said than done”.

I know it’s very tough to find happiness and I truly accept this fact. But how can we come to a conclusion without even trying. Guys almost all people have different situations, have different pressures.

Teenagers are sad because of their grades, failed relationships, pressures etc. Adults are sad because of job pressure, marriages, pressure to earn more, heartbreak etc.

In all this we have forgotten our happiness and we are diving in a sea of sadness. People, try to change your routes, try to change your directions and dive into the sea of happiness.

I’m not talking in a philosophical language I know the reasons, the pressures and I’m sad too because of them. What we all can do is to discover happiness in small things.

Now it’s all upon us from where and how can we find that. I can give an idea to you.

“Imagine there is a hot summer day and you are coming back home from your school and there’s immense heat and you are walking. It’s obvious you’ll feel thirsty you have taken out your water bottle and you found that there’s no drop to drink. Then after struggling from heat and thirst you finally reach your home. Your mother came and handed you a glass of water. Now that pleasure in a single glass of water makes you forget all your struggle and sadness.”

This is what we call, finding happiness in small small things. I know we are sad, I know we are depressed and I know things never workout as we want them to.

I just tried to inspire you to bring happiness in your lives. It’s all upon you how you can dive into a sea of happiness.

Start with loving yourself. The more you’ll love yourself the more you’ll be happier.

Happiness can be created by our own hands. Discover it as early as you can and make your life beautiful.

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BE HAPPY !!! 😃😃

So hello guys hope you are doing well. Today we will not talk about any special topic because I was thinking and thinking from past few days but I haven’t got any special topic to write about. So today we will take this simple yet an important topic.

So being happy doesn’t means that you are happy around so many people or you are happy because you are surfing the internet or may it be anything.

Being happy means that you are happy with yourself. You are happy alone. Now don’t get confused between the two words being alone and being lonely.

These words have a different meaning being alone with yourself doesn’t mean that you are lonely. Loneliness is that you are lonely from inside. It’s a sign of depression, stress or anxiety.

Being happy by yourself doesn’t mean that you are lonely. It means that you are practicing soltitude. We are surrounded by different types of people, different types of things in all that we just forget our own happiness.

Happiness is that which comes from inside. You should be confident and happy by yourself. Don’t depend on people or things to make you happy. Start practicing soltitude.

This will make you more calm, confident, responsible, creative and mature. If you aren’t perfect it’s good, be happy in that also. You can’t be perfect everytime and in everything.

Maturity comes when you take the responsibility of your own happiness rather than depending on the people or things.

So be happy always never ever spoil yourself because of anything because you are precious. Your life is precious. Love yourself and be happy by yourself.

Thank you for reading this article. I hope you have understood. Be free to give your views.

Love you all…🧡🧡

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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Optimistic + Realistic = Realistic optimist 💯✔✔

Optimism is a necessary thing. It gives us inspiration and confidence to run after our goals and aspirations. There are two ways to be an optimist :-

Unrealistic Optimist :- Believe that good things will just happen without any focus on how they will happen.

Realistic Optimist :- Believe in their power to make good things happen even through rough conditions.

Realistic optimists always approach to their dreams positively that they will come true. But they also believe that they have to make them happen. They ensures proper planning, hardwork with smart work, consistency, strategy and their priorities.

Basically they have believe in themselves and their preparation strengthens their trust more and more on themselves. They see the opportunity in every difficulty.

They are the people who know that they will make it happen but they also know that it is difficult, so then they plan about those difficulties and fight with them in a realistic and optimistic way.

Believing that the road to success will be rocky leads to a greater success because it forces you to take action.

– Heidi Grant, PhD

Now how can we be a realistic optimist

  1. Ensure what you have to do.
  2. Identify all the positive and negative sides and outcomes of your goals
  3. Plan accordingly
  4. Take an action and maintain your consistency
  5. Now focus on your goal and think positively and be confident in your strengths. Take your failures and mistakes positively and learn from them.

Guys so be a realistic optimist rather than being an unrealistic one. These were my views regarding optimism. I know the article is long but it can be useful for the people reading this.

Thank you for reading this article.

Love you all…

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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‘Regrets’ :- Just say them a big NO !!

I am sure you all have heard from your elder ones like “time flies” or “if I would have done this”etc. They keep on telling that once they were young and now they don’t know how time flies and they had become old.

You know that regrets kill us from inside. They desolate us and our present moment. There are many things which we think that we want to do, may it be a particular career, someone whom you want to ask out or anything.

But because of some reason we just skip that things maybe because of family pressure or it can be any type of pressure. But those regrets sojourn with us for the whole life.

Think hundred times and then act. Because that particular moment will never ever come back to you again.

I know regrets are there in our lives. Everyone have different types of experiences and so the regrets associated with them.

But we can’t do anything, what we can do is just to abide them. Yes if you want to get rid of them then you have to accept it. Acceptance is the key.

Learn from your regrets and try to focus on the present moment so that you can enjoy your future without any regrets.

So these were my views regarding regrets. I have written this because I too regret for many mistakes that I’ve made in my past and I just wanted to share it with you all, that don’t stick to it, firstly just try to enjoy each and every thing so that you don’t have future regrets and secondly if you have, then just abide them and learn from it.

Be free to give your views.

Thank you so much for reading this article.

Love you all…

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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Is Anger Really Bad ??

So heyy guys what’s up hope you are doing well. Today we’ll talk about anger. In the language of internet anger means a “strong uncomfortable and hostile response on a perceived provocation”. Tough language right !!!

First of all let me clear you that anger is not an unhealthy emotion it is a healthy emotion. We all are human beings we have different kinds of emotions and these emotions only make us a human.

Now I’ll come to the question that is anger really bad ?

So the answer is A BIG NO !!!

Guys anger is not bad. Aggression is bad, there is a difference between aggression and anger. But you know where the problem comes, it comes when we express our anger in a wrong direction rather than using it in a correct direction.

When we become angry what do we do, either we just start yelling at someone or we just express it on things like cushions, wall etc. Anger can be of any type it might be because of a heartbreak, failure etc.

The thing is, we have to express our anger on something which can be productive for us. Like if you are angry because of a heartbreak. So there are so many things that are going on inside you. You don’t have an idea how much energy is there inside you at that point of time.

You can use this energy in a productive way, you can bring out all your anger on a piece of paper. You can write something. Release your anger on a thing which can make you more and more better day by day.

Keeping your emotions, your feelings, your frustration inside yourself is not good. Not now, but it can lead to many problems in future like anxiety, depression etc. So never ever think that anger is bad. Anger can be good if you’ll use it in a correct way.

So guys these were my views regarding anger. Be free to give your views and ask your queries if you have.

Thank you for reading this article.

Love you all..

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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It’s Your Life !!!

So do you know what life is, scientifically it means period from childhood to death. But is life that simple and solved. Nope it’s damn hard, I hope you all have experienced many ups and downs in your lives.

We all have different experiences some might be so beautiful and some might be as worse that we couldn’t swallow them. But regardless of all these things it’s our life.

And we only can decide what we have to take from it and what we have to let go. If you think that your life is not good then just have a look around yourself, and see those people who are handicapped, people who are fighting from harsh conditions.

In front of them don’t you think we are damn lucky. Guys life is not like a straight line, it is a path containing so many curves.

The feeling of never stop in any situation of life is damn necessary, you should have a burning fire in yourself !!!

Live, learn and leave the things which are not as necessary and just move on.

Make your dreams your besties, make your life your true love, and never ever leave the hand of this moment”.

Guys love your life you will not get it again never ever ruin it because of difficult circumstances. I hope you all are getting my words. It’s your life make it as you want, it all depends on you how beautiful you can make it.

Thank you so much for reading this article.

Love you all…

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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Practical Person v/s Emotional Person :- What to practice ??

In the language of internet a practical person seems to be a realist whereas an emotional person seems to be a person subjected to strong states of emotion.

So I have seen many people telling “be a practical person ” or “stop being a emotional person”. And when people encounters with a practical person they say that “show a little emotions man” etc.

I think that you all have heard these kinds of things from people.

What I think is that a person shouldn’t be 100% practical nor 100% emotional, a person should be sensible enough to sense when to act practical and when to act emotional.

I know being a practical person is good it makes you realistic but emotional intelligence is also required with practical intelligence if you want to achieve greatly.

A person should know when to use his practical intelligence, when to use emotional one and when to use both of them. Do not listen to people what they say to you that’s not important, important is that what you make yourself.

Both type of intelligence is important in a person’s both personal as well as proffessional life. This whole world is practical but emotions displays that you are alive in this world as a human being.

Be a sensible person who can sense when to use his practical intelligence and when to use his emotional intelligence. Don’t be too practical or too emotional, use both of them.

So guys these were my views for a practical and an emotional person. Hope you have understood. Be free to give your views. I love to read your opinions.

Thank you for reading this article.

Love you all….

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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Never Stop Learning !!!

Learning something new is very important in life. But the thing is that as we grew old we just stop learning. We think that now we are old enough to understand everything and we continue living the same routine life in which we get ready for work and then come back home that’s it.

But is that really true ?? Do we have an understanding of everything ??

NO !! Why ??

Because we are humans not robots that everything is already feeded in our mind. There is a necessity for us to learn something from everyone no matter what how mature and old we are, a small child can also teach you many things and most importantly he can teach you how to be happy in this moment.

Guys never ever stop learning because once you have stopped learning you will remain as it is as you are, the same version of yours will leave this world.

And for this reason we are not in this world you have to attain the highest potential of yourself, so that you can become an advanced version of yourself. Learning something new will make you happy, confident and irreplaceable with someone. So never ever stop learning.

Thanks for reading this article I hope you understood.

Love you all…

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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Power Of Acceptance

There are so many things that happen in our day to day lives and sometimes we face big challenges like failure. What we do to move on is we just try to run away from the situation rather than accepting the fact that it had happened.

I have also done same things in my past but now I’ve realised one thing that is if we want to surely move on from a situation we have to accept the situation and then only we can move on from it.

Once you will accept it maybe it is your failure, heartbreak or maybe any situation you will surely move on from it.

Firstly you have to accept it, secondly you have to learn from it and lastly after learning and accepting you have to move on from it so that you can concentrate on your present moment rather than thinking about your past.

Acception is what this moment dictates you to do, so don’t try to run away from it accept the situation, learn from it and then move on.

Power of acceptance is much bigger than you think it can solve all your problems but the thing is that you have to realise the power of acceptance then see how everything changes.

Thank you for reading this article.

Love you all..

NEVER STOP #RUKNA NAHI ©

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